Be yourself--- Become a happy self

If somebody asks you, Do you know yorself? Have ever been yourself fully in any situation? You will quickly answer:
YES. Wait for a moment think again, do you really know your real self or have you ever been your real self? No, you don't know yourself fully. If somebody starts asking you about yourself, you will need to think first to choose the answer to be given. Do you spend time with yourself ever? Do you ever meet the person inside you? Do you ever ask, did I like this? Am I really happy being what I am? Am I really happy in whatever things I'm doing? Wait, take a pause, now answer these questions. If you want to be happy, the criteria would be; make people happy around you, Let them say you are a good person, Fulfill their expectations that they have from you. Is this right way to be happy if you don't listen to your innermost VOICE of yoursself? You are actually abusing yourself by ignoring your wishes, your choices, your actual self. Develop a good relationship with yourself first. then only you will be able to develop relationship with others. Be good to yourself. Find out time to talk to self, listen to what your self is saying. It's important how you look at yourself not what others think about you. If you develop rapport with the one inside you, the world will be with you. In order to be callled a good being by others you need to be satisfied from within. Once you startb spending time with yoursself, you will gradually become one with your inner self and then you will not need to look within to find outr yourself. You are one at that time and not two(one outside and another inside) and you will not have to be hypocrite but you can be what you actually are. Start being with self, start being happy and you will make others so, if you are happy. Think and decide on your own.

Think and Enjoy Freedom

Hey, It's very nice to write like this. when I created a blog I really didn't know what to write? actually to be very frank I have created the blog for the reason that I wanna start practicing typing and so, I'm here. These days I'm passing through a tough time as I'm not able to convince some people in my life about what I really want. There are very few times in my life where I had choice. But now I'm capable enough to make one but now not allowed to do so... We say we are free. I doubt whether it is actually the case. As we always need to see and think about the people around. First the family members and they think about the people in the society. Are we really using our freedom to choose what we actually want to do.?????? No, we are not free. In order to be free first requrement is to know what we really want.? We always think that what will others feel and think and react to what I am doing. and in thinking about we ignore our inside desires and needs. THINK again are we really FREE??? if not we can try to be free in terms of thinking first and then we can choose to be free in our actions too and thus we can stop abusing our own conscince. This way we can feel free in actual sense. BUT think once more. Are we really ready to enjoy FREEDOM? That is the only question. Because our thoughts, beliefs, perceeptions and even happiness too, are dependent on what others wants us to think in the manner, see the world and even to percive ourself as. So we need to work upon being independent and then gradually by being independent we can achive the state of freedom. Then only we can see it as the opportunity to live life the way we want to live. If we are not actually ready to enjoy freedom in any way better not think about being free and choose to tied up with the things we don't like and we pretend that we like that. So, THINK and THINK again whether you want to be free or to be dependent on others for your happiness...?

I'm here now.

Hi. I'm on blog now. for no special reason but one and that is I would love to write.